Monday, March 23, 2009
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Divine Loves Secret
To the people in my life I say "you have my permission to be emotionally honest with me and I ask for your permission to be emotionally honest with you" At those times when you get triggered into and emotionally upset by something I have said or done, rather than withdrawing, I ask that you express your emotion directly to me while keeping in mind that I am not to blame for what you are feeling. Instead of getting defensive, I will do my best to receive your honest emotional expression as a gift.
And with your permission when I feel hurt or angry or frightened in relation to something you've said or done, I will not withdraw from you but express my emotion openly with the awareness that you are not to blame for what I am feeling. At such times, I will ask that you receive my honest emotional expression as a gift, even if my emotion is difficult for you to be with.
In addition, if I speak critically of you, please remind me to explore my own irritation rather than continuing to focus on what I think is wrong with you. And if you get critical of me I will remind you to explore your inner irritation rather than continuing to focus on what you perceive is wrong with me.
By being together in these ways, to the best of our abilities, we can help one another remove the barriers which keep us separate and stand in the way of the intimacy and uncondional love we long for.
Breathe deeply feel and express every emotion that arises, do not blame, criticize or get defensive, and remember that emotional upsets are always blessings in disguise....herein lies the secret to making divine love a reality.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Sunday, January 18, 2009
ATVs
Saturday, January 3, 2009
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Kambucha Tea
Saturday, December 27, 2008
WheatGrass
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Christmas Yoga
MERRY CHRISTMAS, HAPPY YULE, LOVE AND LIGHT!!!!!!!!!!
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Pai
Loving the health and wellness of my mountain retreat getaway.......I am at a sleepy little mountain town tucked away in Northern Thailand. It has only got a population of about 4000 people but they are mostly artisan and crafters. It makes a really nice vibe, the town is really just a bunch of leather, jewelry, and craft shops with a lot of little boutiques and yoga schools too. Tons of beautiful handmade items. I have been helping my friend Mike who lives in Thailand now select décor for his new home here in Asia. Everything is amazingly inexpensive, even shipping stuff south to the island he lives on. There aren’t many western visitors either it is mostly locals and Thai vacationers, it was actually crazy busy with Thai tourists last weekend for the Kings birthday…..the streets were so crowded you couldn’t even ride a bicycle but it has been such a nice change to be away from all the “farang” (western tourists) HAHA!
White Water Rafting !
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Bodhi Villa
The spot I am staying is divine! Bodhi Villa Chill Out is the name :) I am in a floating bungalow on the river, there is a little wooden walkway that goes out to room and the water facing side is just long wide curtains that blow in the wind. It is so beautiful and the sun rises over the opposite side of the river with the breeze waving the curtains so you catch glimpses of the sunrise but are not blinded by the light. We hung a hammock on the open side too so we can pull up the curtains and just lay in the hammock for a book or nap….absolutely fabulous spot. A great guy named Hugh (Aussie) owns the place and the bar is rockin every night and has a full stock of western favs (including the Captain :P). The food has been one of the best parts too, everything on the menu is delicious! We actually had to stay someplace else the first night in Kampot cause this place was full but it was worth the wait, my friend Tanya (from the Yoga school in Koh Phangan) recommended this spot and I will be giving her a big thank you for that! If you are in the area it’s a must! I am actually sorta sad to be moving on but I have been in Cambodia a while now and my visa is up soon so time to move on……
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Kampot
Kampot is a wonderfully central location for South Cambodia, there is Kep to the East and Sihanoukville to the West, the river, caves and Bokor mountains/National Park.
I have taken day trips to all, it is so much nicer to just settle somewhere and go out from there than be constantly on the move. The National Park is actually closed for construction (or the part I wanted to visit)…..there is a “ghost town” in the mountains, it was built a century ago by the French and has a hotel, casino, and even small palace but was abandoned TWICE because of fighting in the region and it is undergoing revitalization again so I hear. Next time I am here the casino will probably be open for business, I would have liked to see it empty and with all the original architecture…….but oh well. The rapids upriver have been fun as well as a day trip to Kep and great oceanside seafood at a shack in the crab market. The town of Kampot is small and quiet and pretty much shuts down after dark but this has been one of my favorite places and I think I may just come back here again someday.
